My eyes opened and were enveloped in what seemed to be total darkness. As I waited for them to adjust to the nighttime shadows, I desperately attempted to disentangle myself from the sheets. The luxurious fabric that I so enjoy had become something akin to a straight jacket. Each toss and turn had produced a […]
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Grief, Gratitude, and Growth: Beginning a New Year Without a Loved One
A new year. A new decade. A new chapter. A slight smile develops as I cradle the steaming cup of tea in between my cool hands, briefly close my sleepy eyes, and slowly inhale the comforting aroma. I gently sigh, slowly sip the decadent liquid, and deliberately focus on the beauty in my surroundings. Holiday […]
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A Different Thanksgiving: Life After Loss
As I rounded the corner, it was painfully obvious that the parking lot was full. My plan to beat the holiday rush didn’t seem to be unfolding as I had hoped. I took a deep breath, sighed, and began the requisite circling. I eventually noticed the glowing back-up lights of a gray SUV. I switched […]
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Four Little Words
“Have a nice day.” Four little words. Usually well intended. Sometimes perfunctory. Mostly an offhanded exchange. Words that prompt you to move on with your life so the person saying them can advance to the next person, the next task, or the next issue. Some might say, “they’re only words.” But right now, these four […]
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